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How To Visualize And Attract The Life You Always Wanted

First you need to get your vision board ready. Have you built your vision board yet? If you have not, you will find out how to later.

Find a quiet place where you can sit comfortably with your vision board that you have built. Hold up your vision board and look at what are the pictures on the vision board. Go through each and every picture. Feel your emotions going through you as you look at the picture. Imagine owning it, live it… visualize all the things you want vividly. You can add actual motions ( like using your hands to feel the diamond ring that you want ) or say out loud “Butler, get me my shoes” etc. Act as if you already have it.

Look at your vision board at least once every day the moment you wake up for at least half an hour in a quiet place. It would be even better if you can look at your vision board again at night. Remember to find a quiet place for you to focus your visualization, to deepen your visualization vividly.

Of course, this is not going to be easy to make it as real and it will take time and practice. But do not give up.

However there are tools in the market that can help you speed up this process. One recommended tool is “Attraction Accelerator” which is a visualization tool that can help you fast-forward the process. If you use this tool, you probably only need only 10 minutes a day to do this visualization exercise. Otherwise, you can find other visualization tool.

Such visualization tools usually consist of special MP3 audios that you can listen to while you look at your vision board. By listening to the MP3s, the special music consists of scientifically proven “beats” in the music background to help you go into focused visualization vividly. In fact many people have feedback that they are listening to it everyday right now. The best part is that since it is in MP3, you can easily burned a copy of it into your MP3 player and be able listen to it whenever you want to. Every time when you listened to it, you can feel brain energy being activated such that you can see “pictures” in your mind in color much like TV.

Here’s a secret : This can be used for focusing as well as for energy and it is not solely for visualization! Try to listen to it during working time to help to stay focus on tasks at hand too.

That said, you can still make the Law of Attraction work without any tools but you really have to be consistent and do not give up. Law of Attraction will definitely work its magic and before long, you may be getting what you desire soon.

Bonus Resource : If you have not created your vision board yet, visit How To Visualize to find out how. Also check out Abundance Attracting – Your Key To Attracting Abundance In Your Life to grab a FREE copy of report on the Law of Attraction.

When Those We Trust Disappoint Us

Recently I needed some work done by a colleague of mine. I had done a lot of pro bono or free work for him and now I needed him to do some work for me. When the job was completed he presented me with a full retail bill. The work he did was what he had promised — but nothing more. He had returned my favors by making me pay full price. After paying I began to wonder — was I missing something here?

About a week later another colleague asked me to do some pro bono work. As I had some extra time, I did it. Several days later he called me saying he wanted to refer one of his clients to me. His client was a computer programming company that had management issues and he did not feel competent to do the work since he was a systems integrator. He also stated he wanted a percentage of my fee as compensation. After our conversation I began to wonder — was I missing something here?

These two individuals are not dummies. They both are intelligent and educated. They both run moderately successful businesses. And maybe that’s the key — moderately successful. They must treat their customers, employees and vendors just like they treated me — squeezing down to the last nickel. Perhaps they viewed me as super successful since I tend to not get worked up over relatively small amounts of money. I also noticed that these two individuals had something in common: they worry all the time.

They worry if they’re busy or if they’re slow. They worry if the vendors are charging too much or too little. They worry if it’s tax time or if it’s not. They worry that each nickel in assets they own is threatened. They even worry if they aren’t worried!

This oddity struck me and it kept my focus when I met them next. With each they were clenching their teeth, telling me how busy yet how bad things were, worried that they were not being as successful as they really should be. Their smiles were forced and the voices strained.

Then it all began to make sense. They did not see that by taking advantage of me I might not be as willing to help them the next time they had their hand out. Not only that, if they were to get in a real bind — which they will — they may not be able to count on my ability to tell them what they should do. Or help them at all!

These two are not evil or even bad. They are actually decent people that have somehow lost control of that which made them decent. They have traded their basic understanding of business dynamics for a transitory figure that temporarily pops up under the net profit column. Their philosophy has become simple if not simplistic — If it does not bring swift and significant gain it really does not matter.

And for business people that is sad. We who do not have the security of getting a hand out must rely on the strength of the relationships we can forge in the dog-eat-dog world of unbridled competition. We love the hunt but we know we can so easily be hunted as well. Perhaps it is just such a fear that makes my two colleagues oblivious to decency.

So now I take deep breath when I think of these two. I hope they find some degree of happiness in the midst of all their anxiety. If the ulcers don’t get them then the coronaries will.

I am proud to say that despite it all I really bear no ongoing resentment. Fortunately they need me a lot more than I need them. Thankfully the cost-benefit imbalance was not that significant and in a real sense I certainly did get my money’s worth. These are two individuals that I might have been convinced to help out in a larger context. Learning bad lessons can certainly be cost effective in the long run by avoiding the bigger mistakes.

And I truly hope they are happy. Hopefully the tag of ‘moderately successful’ will not be too painful. As hard as they work and as much as they worry they deserve all the happiness and success they can get! Just not from me…

Jack D. Deal is the owner of Deal Business Consulting. He can be contacted at jddeal@jddeal.com Related articles can be found at http://www.jddeal.com and http://www.freeandinquiringmind.typepad.com

Leading Your Way To Success

Unless you are a leader in your work, you cannot succeed greatly because great people know how to lead others. If your work is making, handling or creating things, or if it is using words, or if it is managing and directing people, you do not succeed unless you lead in your particular line of work.

There are thousands-yes, millions-of people who work well and faithfully from youth to old age. Yet, they never attain to that which we call success. By efficient work, they just hold their own. They do not succeed greatly, because they do not lead in the work they do.

But; if you make better things than others make, or make them a little more rapidly, or more efficiently, you lead in making things and your reward is success in that line.

If you handle things more effectively than others handle them, you become a leader in handling things, and your leadership brings you success.

If you create things-that is, discover or invent them-you become a leader by creating things, and attain to success, providing that you render service by marketing the things you create.

If you work with words, you may use them as does a copyist, or a stenographer, and not succeed greatly in life. In using words, the stenographer is usually a follower-following the use of words, which are dictated by another.

So long as the stenographer remains a follower in the use of words, he can improve his position only by increase of speed, or accuracy, or neatness. But, if in part, he becomes a leader in the use of words-able to use them so that he can take charge of a part of the correspondence of his employer-he becomes a leader in his field, and his compensation is doubled.

There is always a possibility of securing increased compensation and abundance, by one phase of leadership-no matter in what field of work you find yourself!

Of course, there are other fields of leadership in the use of words. The person who thinks vividly and expresses himself in vivid imagery, leads all others. He becomes the great author, the great dramatist, the great orator, the great preacher, the great attorney, or the great public leader who inspires us and leads us to a higher and more efficient life.

In justice, the compensation, which the world gives, not only for different kinds of work, but for leadership in each kind of work, varies. If you lead in doing things, you receive a certain compensation. If you lead in using words, you receive a greater compensation. If you lead in handling people, you attain to the great reward-for, such leadership is the most difficult and the most needed.

There are only three fields of work: (1) making, handling, or creating things, (2) using words; and (3) leading and directing people.

Choose the field in which you wish to lead, on the dual basis of ability and service-the field in which you can render the greatest service to others for the longest time. Your native ability is the first factor, which determines your choice, and the needs of others is the second. Of this second factor, it seems unnecessary to write a word-for you know that you will fail if you choose a work which others do not need, just as you would fail if you should invest in a factory to make one-horse shays!

Determine your skill set, become a leader in that skill set, find a need and start trying to fill it. Then hold on to your hat because you’re on the way to becoming an entrepreneur.

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5 Ingredients For Success In Law of Attraction

In this article, I will outline 5 ingredients for success in the Law of Attraction. Make the Law of Attraction a part of your life to achieve your goals and dreams. Whatever you want in your life, you can accomplish. Be it wealth, health, happiness, love and more.

Ingredient 1 is The Science of Getting Rich

There is a book that you should read to help you fully understand the Law of Attraction and how it can help you in your life with anything you want to achieve. The Science of Getting Rich, by Wallace D. Wattles can help guide you through how you can change your negative thoughts, doubts, worries, and fears into positive thinking and how this will help you achieve what you want in your life.

Ingredient 2 is Thoughts Become Reality

Your thoughts do actually physically manifest themselves in your life. Therefore, when you think negatively, those thoughts will bring about negative things in your life, ie. things you do not want. Negative thoughts attract negative events and things. The Law of Attraction can help you change your way of thinking. When you think positively you will attract positive things in your life. Your positive thinking can help you make those positive things in your life become a reality.

Ingredient 3 is Redirect Your Energy

You can redirect your energy by controlling your thoughts. Remember your thoughts do not have control over you, you are the one (and the only one) who can change the way you think. If you are like most people, you might constantly think about what you do not have. This is a waste of your energy and incurs negative thoughts about your life and yourself. You need to redirect your energy to be grateful for everything, and everyone you have in your life. By being grateful you will realize that you have a lot more than you thought you did, that you may not need more material things, that you have accomplished more in your life than you are giving yourself credit for, and that you can achieve what you want in your life. This takes the focus off of the negative thoughts of what you do not have, what you cannot have, and what you wish you had and redirects your energy toward being grateful for your life and everything in it.

Ingredient 4 is Visualization and Goal Setting

Positive visualization and proper goal setting is the platform from which you jumpstart your life and reaching your dreams. With positive visualization you can help your mind think positively and attract positive things in your life. You should spend at least five minutes a day with visualization. You should feel peaceful, relaxed, and calm. Visualize your goals and dreams using all of your senses. Visualize yourself as the person who has already accomplished these goals and dreams.

Ingredient 5 is Positive Actions Bring You What You Want

None of these ingredients of the Law of Attraction will work for you if you do nothing to make them happen. You must take action toward accomplishing your goals and dreams. Take the necessary steps to get there and you will.

Khoon Eng is a Practitioner of Personal Development. He Has Coached Many People to Breakthrough their Self-Limiting Beliefs with Sustainable and Long Term Results. Find out how to unleash the Power of Law of Attraction at http://www.TheLawOfAttractionMoney.com/blog

Lemonade and The Universal Law of Attraction

Here’s a great parable on how you can use the universal law of attraction in your life.

There was a gentleman, let’s call him George, who was going through a tough financial streak. One day there was a knock at the door and, by the time he answered it, the caller had vanished. All that was left was a crate of lemons.

Now George had never heard about the universal law of attraction. But he did know that if you add enough ingredients to lemons, you can make lemonade. It happened that he had just enough money in his pocket for the ingredients, and, with an ‘Attitude of Gratitude’ for the ‘free’ lemons, he set about the task.

Shortly, he set up a lemonade stand at the local County Fair selling the lemonade he made with the anonymous lemon gift. His stand was very popular and many enquiries followed, soon the law of attraction had opened up a range of opportunities for him to pursue.

So, even though George was not ‘consciously’ applying the law of attraction, his actions brought about a series of circumstances that helped him out of his dire circumstances, because he was open to the possibilities around him.

Yes, the universal laws of attraction were good to George.

Do you see how simple it can be to use the law in your life to create an exciting future, one that you can be proud of? And do you also see how easily those same laws of attraction, if not used wisely can attract things you don’t want into your life?

If you begin to be thankful for everything that comes your way in life, the universal law of attraction will sense this newfound gratefulness and begin to provide you with more reasons to be thankful.

This translates into the law of attraction providing you with more of the better things in life, as defined by you. The law will do nothing more in your life than offer the circumstances that you’re thinking of.

Even if you’re given some form of wealth -money- jewelry-a car-, even a tiny bit, but don’t accept it with an air of gratitude, then the universal law of attraction naturally assumes it’s not what you really wanted, and will not deliver more. The law is going to assume -rightly or wrongly – that you really didn’t want that wealth in the first place, and you will know poverty once again.

However, if you accept even that little bit of wealth with sincere gratitude, knowing that if given more, it will accumulate, then the law of attraction is going to bring even more wealth your way.

It might not happen overnight, but rest assured that eventually the universal law of attraction will recognize your sincere gratitude and begin to bring more wealth your way. The law of attraction doesn’t work just for wealth; you can put these amazing universal laws of attraction to work for you in your relationships, in attaining joy, in your career in absolutely every endeavor in your life.

There is not an aspect of your life that is not governed by the law of attraction. That’s why it’s best to take heed to the ancient wisdom: “In all good things give thanks.” This is the surest way to make the law of attraction work in all aspects of your life.

Paul Warren is a Wealth Creation Educator and stock trader. You can download Wealth Creation Audio Books and Free Wealth Creation E-books at his site mymillionairebuddy.com