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I’ve only seen one method for getting girls that actually works. This proven method involves only a little time invested and a small budget, so anyone can do it. My cousin will be very upset at me for giving this information to the public. He pioneered this technique and used it to his advantage many, many times. I figure everyone should have chance to expand their exposure a little.

To be a true chick magnet you need to be wanted, or have something a girl desires. Unless you’re filthy rich then this requires a little strategy. The first step in this proven method is to have a nice pad or at the very least an apartment. This is essential to attract the right girls. It’s even better if your house or apartment is located in a nice area, like at the beach. Now if you have a roommate you’re going to need to convince them that this strategy is a valid method and will succeed. You might have to throw a bone their way to make it worth their while. Offer to do their laundry, or walk their dog. The best thing to do is offer them some dating benefits from the method. If they are single, they should be easily convinced.

Next step is to place an ad in the local paper or website for a room for rent. Now it’s very important to place the ad way under priced. If your room would rent for $1000, place the ad for $500. Doing this will ensure everyone will contact you first. Plus poor college chicks are desperate and will hunt you down. Can you believe how simple this is? Make sure to include details like close to shopping, walking distance to the beach, lots of parking etc. Now once the ad is live and you begin to receive calls all you have to do is screen out the guys and invite all the girls to view your room. It’s probably a good idea to phone screen each candidate first. Ask them probing questions like: Do you have friends over often? Do you have a pet? Does your boyfriend sleep over? What are you hobbies? Are you in school?

The more questions you ask up front the less amount of time you will have to spend in person. Now for the important part: Once the girl arrives you need to tell her your room is for rent because you are traveling to Europe for business. You can elaborate however you feel necessary. Feel free to say things like; My band is going on tour, I’m a snowboarding professional, I’m a international photographer, whatever. What ever story you use make it easy to cancel. You can’t date her is your out of the country.

You will continue to use this method and I guarantee you will be surprised how many numbers you will have. You can continue to use this method until you build up your black book to a sufficient size.

Good luck and happy camping.

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There are a ton of resources on the Internet with dating tips for men, but how many of them actually work?

Most of them focus on making sure that you are clean, groomed and are a gentleman, but most men want to know what they did wrong on the last date, not to take a bath! What made her decline a second and third date?

When you ask the woman, more than likely she will not disclose why she will not go out with you again. That is the reason that you must look at as many dating tips for men as possible to ensure that you are doing and saying the right things.

1. Pay for the date

If you invited the woman out then make sure that you pick up the tab. While the woman may volunteer it is your obligation to pay for the meal, movie or whatever else. Now later in the relationship it should be a financial split, but not the first couple of dates.

2. Be prepared financially

Dating is not cheap, but neither is being alone. Take her somewhere nice, it does not have to be the most expensive joint in town just somewhere that serves great food or has a great atmosphere. Most women understand that men have to budget just like them and chances are she already has figured out that you are not a multi millionaire.

3. Conversation through the evening

Make conversation throughout the evening, but do not hog the entire conversation. Women love it when you make her a part of the conversation by asking her questions about her life. NO, not personal questions or sexual questions, just things she likes, what she dislikes and her goals in life. Another golden dating rule!!

This is also a very good way to determine what you both have in common. When you learn more about her and her likes as well as hobbies, you can use that to your advantage. And, a big advantage it is!

4. Under no circumstances be rude to anyone

One of the absolute biggest complaints that women have on outings with men is that they embarrass them. It does not matter if the waiter service sucks or that guy pulled out in front of you twice, do not pick a fight and keep your mouth shut. It is ok, to say that someone aggravated you, but do not offer to whip the guy over it. If you do this it will not only embarrass her, but she will wonder if that is how you will treat her when you get mad at her. AVOID IT!

5. Phone calls and other social events

No matter what grand event comes up after you have made your date, decline it. Do not stand your date up or try to reschedule. She will likely find out what you did and dump you on your butt. This is a huge no no. It is also not a good idea to invite your friends or take her to meet your friends on the first date. Give her some time first, she does not want to go to a party with your friends or sit across from your best buddy at dinner. She wants a chance to get to know you, not seek the approval of others yet!

If you get a telephone call and it absolutely cannot wait simply excuse yourself from the table, for a very short period of time. Be polite enough to explain the situation and that is was very important when you return to the table. If you are gone too long or fail to mention the nature of the telephone call, she is going to assume that it was another woman.

If you run into someone that you know, introduce her. If you can not remember the persons name then politely tell them her name and say how you know the person. Such as this is my date Linda, and Linda, I have known this guy from work for years! It is taboo to just ignore her because you could not remember the guys name.

Keep these dating tips in mind and you will very rarely have a bad date.

Lee Blackspur is the owner of My-Dating-Advice.com which provides online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.

As with any other conversations there are things that you want to avoid saying when you are talking to others. On the other hand there are things that are good to say in order to succeed at speed dating.

Sometimes part of the problem with dating is people continually say the wrong things and even joke about putting their foot in their mouth.

While no guide or article can go through every comment that should or should not be said there are a few no nos for any speed dating session.

It is acceptable that a potential mate knows that you have had previous relationships with others. You should never speak ill of a past relationship or partner excessively. Even if you can’t stand the person or are angry at them you should not burden this new person with ugly comments, name calling or other negative conversation. Remember they want to see you in a positive light and are not concerned about your past relationship.

On the flip side of that do not speak about how great your ex lover really was either. If they were so great why are you still not together? You cannot start a new relationship based on a past relationship or talking about it all the time either.

Try to avoid speaking about negative things during your conversation. Everyone has a bad day, is sometimes broke financially or has a fight with a neighbor, but it is not a good idea to share this with someone that you are meeting for the first time. You absolutely cannot succeed at speed dating by having negative conversations. It is important that you make the other person feel good, comfortable and not stressed or feeling like they have taken a new job as a counselor.

Do not talk about your dysfunctional family, crazy neighbor or jerk of a boss when you are first getting to know someone else. This makes the person sitting across from you think that you have problems with everyone and that you are really the problem. They do not want someone that cannot get along with others or function in society without having a problem. If you do this it is guaranteed that the person will assume that they will be next. Since no one wants to be on the outside of a relationship badmouthing others is not a good idea.

Do not get into deep conversations talking about issues that could be controversial or offend the other person. Everyone has their opinions and is entitled to their own thoughts, but the beginning of a relationship is not the time to share these ideas.

Keep your conversations positive and talk about superficial things such as the weather, local news, or a great event that is coming to your town. This will keep the conversation on a happy and healthy note allowing the both of you to enjoy your session.

You can talk about what you expect out of life, where you want to be in the future or your plans. This is fine because these are things that you are striving for and are not negative or self defeatest behavior. In fact this is an excellent thing to spend a great deal of time on to ensure that you and this potential partner have like goals.

Talking about your career is not a bad thing and it does give the other person some insight to your life. You do want to be careful about spending too much time on your career or seeming as if you are married to your job. Potential mates want someone that is ambitious and successful, but also has a good balance with their priorities.

It is also a good idea if you have children or something else that would influence a relationship to go on and let the person know. It is better to be up front and honest than to let the person find out and then have to make a decision.

Honesty is the biggest key to succeeding at speed dating.

Lee Blackspur is the owner of My-Dating-Advice.com which provides online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.

One of the greatest challenges guys face in meeting a woman they are interested in is initiating that first conversation. I am asked often by my readers how to initiate that conversation. They find an attractive, intriguing woman they would like to get to know, but simply do not know how to begin a conversation with her.

Many guys are stuck in the rut of using pick-up lines they “picked up” from a friend or found in a magazine. The truth is that pick-up lines simply are not effective. In reality, they NEVER work.

Using a pick-up line portrays your intentions immediately, shows your lack of original style and does not draw positive attention from women. Rather, it instantly turns them away rather than attracting them.

So, now that you know why you should not use pick-up lines, you are probably wondering what the alternative is. Well, it’s easy. You use an opener!

Openers, basically, open the door to further conversation but do so inconspicuously. They are great conversation starters to spark her interest, make her more comfortable and then get to know her better as the conversation continues.

The main difference between an opener and a pick-up line is that you are initially asking her opinion on something with an opener. From that point, you will shift into a deeper conversation. By using an opener, she will not instantly categorize you with men who use corny pick-up lines and you will not look sleazy both of which will definitely not spark her interest and attraction to you.

Openers are effective for several reasons. First, women especially like to give their opinions and even more so when asked. Second, as mentioned above, openers do not display your intentions 100% which is very important in attracting a woman.

It is much more effective when a woman is not sure if you are into her or not, or what your real intentions were in approaching her. This helps build the attraction. Third, openers are a great way to show her some of your personality. You can be funny, interesting, down-to-earth and approachable all at the same time.

The key to using openers effectively centers on two things. You must ask an open-ended question and ask the opinion of a group. Remember, the goal is to get a conversation going and a “yes-no” question will not be successful. If the question can be answered in a few words, chances are that you will get little more than this.

Your question should be on a subject that is interesting and stirs up conversation. When they are interested in what you have to say, they are more likely to want to continue the conversation and move into other topics. Here are a few guidelines to using openers:

First, keep in mind that you do not know them (yet) so they may be somewhat hesitant to an interruption in their conversation by a stranger. This is just reality. The best way to move past this is to give the group a time constraint. If they think you are only planning to stay for a short time, they will be far more willing to engage in friendly conversation and let you “join the group.” Eventually, as the conversation continues, they will forget about the time constraint and just enjoy the present conversation.

Second, the openers need to be on interesting topics, slightly humorous and lighthearted. Avoid serious subjects such as political or religious topics, for instance. As much as these may stir up some intense conversation, “intense” is not exactly what you are looking for at that time!

Remember, you are trying to attract the woman you are interested in from the group and, as such, you want the conversation to be fun and enjoyable so she will want to get to know you better.

Finally, you do not want to give the impression that you are circling the room randomly asking questions. Be sure you have a reason why you are walking up to the group and asking their opinion on whatever it is you choose to open with.

One of the most practical and effective ways to handle this is to say something like, “Hey, I was talking to my friend and decided that I should get a woman’s opinion.” Then, lead into your opener. This makes the entire approach appear far more natural.

Being prepared is the best way to ensure openers are effective. Sit down and prepare two or three openers that can be used in any situation. I’m sure you can come up with several of your own, but if you really get stuck you can always use the popular “G-String Opener.” This has been used with quite a bit of success and goes something like the following:

“Hey, I’m getting ready to leave but I wanted to get your opinion first. My buddy and I were just talking about a friend who cheated on his girlfriend and really messed things up in his relationship. You see…his girlfriend found another woman’s G-string under his bed. When she questioned him on it, rather than confessing, he told her that he had a fetish for wearing female underwear.

His girlfriend liked the idea so much that she now makes him wear her underwear quite often. So, what should he do? Do you think he should keep up the lie hoping it fades in time or tell her the truth?”

This opener is the perfect example of a conversation started that is fun, interesting, intriguing and definitely a story that will stir up a lot of conversation and laughs. Gradually, you can transition into other conversation topics and get to know the group, and the women, better.

So, take the time to sit down and prepare a few creative openers. Be sure to tailor each one to your personality and keep them as open-ended questions. Most importantly, stay away from the pick-up lines!

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com

One of the core principles to attracting women is to learn how to become an Alpha Male. By demonstrating this personality, you’ll transform yourself into somebody who can display confidence in a quiet, but noticeable manner.

Now I’m sure you’ve heard a lot about acting like an Alpha Male. But there is one problem with trying to accomplish this. Since you know that alpha males are the guys who can attract women, how do you know if you’re acting like an alpha or if you’re a beta?

Well it’s simple!

There are certain identifiable characteristics which can quickly show when a guy is acting like either an alpha or beta male. Your job is to figure out if you’re showing any of beta male traits, then work hard to change them.

For instance you should find out if you display any of these “beta male body language” cues:

1) Nervousness in your hands

What you do with your hands tells people a lot about your personality. So be sure not to display any beta male signals with your hands. This can include:

* Shredding napkins or playing with items

* Sitting on or hiding your hands

* Trembling or nervous energy with your hands

* Playing or twiddling with your fingers

* Biting your fingers or chewing on your fingers

2) Approval seeking

A beta male is somebody who is constantly seeking approval from other people. He is the guy who tells jokes in the hopes that others will find him funny. Or he is the guy who works hard to make people like him. In essence, the behavior of the beta male is somebody who will do anything to “fit in” with the crowd.

3) Following others

The final beta male characteristic is looking to others for guidance and self respect. In a social setting, he is the guy who is constantly following the trends as a way to fit in and become cool. In essence, he has no personality of his own. Instead he is the guy who follows his friends or “what’s cool” to define who he is as a person.

As you can see, there are a lot of traits which can make a beta male. What’s important is to look within yourself and find out if you’re displaying ANY of these characteristics. If you discover that you are, then I recommend you take steps to quickly eradicate them.

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com

Dating can be quite a lot of entertainment, but it can also be quite stressful too. Although some persons prefer to have their relationships become serious after only a few of dates, dating is ideally more of a gradual procedure of getting to know each other. Thus, it is important to practice some dating conversation tips during those first several important dates.

Use Humor

No matter how serious a person is, chances are that person still likes to giggle at something. Humor is needful in any dating scenario, because not only does it lighten what might be a stressful position, but it also creates the occasion for the couple to create private jokes between each other, which is a fun way of solidifying a relationship.

Learn from each ones differences

Although it is notable for a couple to share similar interests in some things, it would be monotonous for a couple to like all of the same things. Thus, during a dialogue it is important to mention hobbies that the other person might not enjoy but be curious about, and this could be the basis for a futurity date.

During these initial conversations, it is egregious for the couple to keep the conversations light, and not too substantive. More personal conversations should be reserved for if and when the couple decides to have a serious relation. Above, all, it is important for the couple to relax and be themselves, because dating is, after all, supposed to be a fun impression!

Finding Common Ground

Whether the couple met via friends, a dating online service, or some other method, there must have been a ground why the couple has chosen to go out on a date in the first place. Yes, physical attractiveness is important, but beyond that, it is necessary that the couple find similar interests.

Thus, as a dating conversation tips, when it comes to similar interests, the easiest way for someone to start a dialogue is by asking the simple question, “What do you like to do in your free time?” Most likely, the other person will list off a variety of different things. If one, or even several of those things are also liked by that other person, that person should immediately express that.

Those first few conversations might still be a bit tense, with each person not knowing what interesting thing to say to the other person. However, once someone has used the dating conversation tips about asking what the other person likes to do, and found common interests, that can be used as the basis for a variety of humorous anecdotes about those interests.

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Learning how to attract beautiful women is something most guys feel is impossible. “I’m not her type.” “Attracting beautiful women is just something some guys are born with, and I’m just not one of those guys.” “She’s way out of my league.” Sound familiar? Well, get all that behind you! By the end of this article, you will know everything you need to attract beautiful women at will by unleashing the confidence from within you.

The most important thing to remember is that the guys that attract beautiful women are really no different than you, except for one major thing: they know what works, and they put it into action. That is honestly much easier than it sounds. These tips and simple steps will help reinforce what works, and all you have to do is take action. The best part is that taking action gets easier and easier, the more you get the results you desire. That’s how ‘those guys’ end up getting every girl you’ve ever liked, and by the night’s end you’ll be better than them, and not nearly as shallow.

The 3 basic stages of attraction:

1) For Starters
2) Conversation
3) The beyond

These are the three essential stages to attracting beautiful women. Each one is driven by one thing: confidence. The key is to show her you’re confident with yourself, and confident that you can improve her life in some way, without bragging or making her uncomfortable.

1) Starters

Appearance is very important for getting things started. No matter how your appearance stands right now, there are hundreds of simple things you can do to improve it. Clothes, build, skin, accessories and cars are all examples of simple things to improve your confidence. You’ve seen it a million times: the guys that get them all just seem to have it all. There’s no coincidence here. However, the key is not to replicate everyone else, but to create your own identity, slightly bending the mold.

You do NOT have to be rich, talented, smart, ripped or hilarious to attract beautiful women. Having a balance of some or all of these things is much better for sealing the deal. If you drive up in a Ferrari and you have huge muscles, you’ll get tons of attention. But when the hot girls that talk to you find out you’re a total jerk you’ll have a tough time from that point on.

Do the things you want to do to improve your own life and build your confidence, and the beautiful women will be attracted with no effort.

Just find your identity with your appearance, and play it up. Build as much confidence in yourself as possible by taking simple steps to improve your looks like taking care of your skin, nails, hair, etc. and exercising regularly. Be sure to stick to a good diet, eating 5-6 small meals per day and avoiding high-fat and oily foods. There are tons of sources for info on these topics, and many are free. Simply subscribing to a magazine or two or looking online can help with many of these things. Follow solid advice and watch your energy skyrocket along with your confidence!

2) Conversation

After you’ve built up your confidence, you’ll be surprised at how much easier it is to approach gorgeous women. Keep things simple. Think first about what she would expect, and how it’s different from what she wants. Think from her perspective and stay confident.

Strike up a conversation about anything going on around you, not about her looks with some cheesy pickup line! Once she starts to respond, focus on the basics. Let her talk about herself, but put in your two cents. Play off of her emotions. Make her laugh, get slightly dramatic even, just don’t get carried away with details and overwhelm her. Don’t complain about your problems, don’t mention inside jokes, and don’t talk politics, religion or dirty jokes.

Always keep things comfortable, but don’t be afraid to push the envelope without offending. Tease her about something little, ask her about sex, feel free to get her thinking, as long as she is comfortable!

Tell her what you’re into, your dreams, where you work, where you want to work, where you’re from. There is so much to talk about when you first meet someone. Get excited to hear about her life, and make sure to tell her about yours. Just keep a balance between prying too much and being boring, and you’ll easily move on to the fun part!

3) The beyond

After you hit it off with her, you’re home free. Whether you’re looking for a one-night stand, someone to date randomly or even a spouse, it’s all the same at first. Treat her right, gradually reveal more about yourself and dig deeper into her life. Don’t be too pushy, but don’t be afraid to talk about sex and your relationship status, as it feels comfortable.

The more you get to know her, the easier it will be for you to determine where you want to go with the relationship. Stay confident, and get what you want. The best way to attract beautiful women is to be confident with yourself by taking action to improve your own life, then finding a balance when learning about her. Take this advice, put it into action, and attract beautiful women at will!

To recap, your three steps to attract beautiful women and gain unstoppable confidence are:

1) Decide what you want to improve about yourself and your life
2) Learn as much as you can from people who know how to do what you want to do
3) Take action and enjoy life!

Learn all the simple secrets to attract beautiful women and have them chasing after you with no effort, from a beautiful woman herself! Get everything you need to unleash the fiery confidence from within you, and get the girl of your dreams now!

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